My Sister! Are you Under a Spell?. Naona wadada wengi ambao hawajaolewa, wazuri na wengine wakiwa na careers zao nzuri tu wapo kwenye mahusiano ya hovyo kupata kutokea. Sijajua ni kwanini lakini nashangaa bado waking'ang'ania hali hiyo. Mwanaume anakupiga, lakini bado upo, anakusaliti mbele ya macho yako lakini bado umeng'ang'ana tu...anakuumiza hisia zako, anakuongelea vibaya, haku-support, hajawahi kukununulia hata nguo ya ndani na hakuheshimu lakini bado upo tu. Sehemu pekee anayokupeleka ni kitandani au Bar, hamjawahi kutembea pamoja maeneo ya wazi, sehemu mnayoonekana pamoja ni kwenye giza giza lakini bado unaona sawa tu. Anakwambia anaweka mahusiano yenu private, lakini wewe bado unajionyesha kwake na unamuacha ana-enjoy sehemu zako za siri za mwili wako mzuri. Nafikiri unahitaji semina binafsi...watu pekee wanaokufahamu kwa upande wake ni marafiki na binamu zake basi, mwanaume anaekutambulisha kwa marafiki tu sio wa kumuamini moja kwa moja..yeye hajali ni kwa kiasi gani hao watu wanamfahamu kwa kuwa obvious watamfichia siri yake tu. Umefungwa na nini..? Nani amekuroga...? Ngoja nikwambie kitu kuhusiana na sisi wanaume. Hatuna tofauti sana na yule mwajiriwa wa kawaida...mwajiriwa wa kawaida yuko radhi afanye chochote kile ilimradi mwisho wa mwezi alipwe mshahara..sawa na sisi: hufanya lolote lile ilimradi tupate sex. Ndio, hata kuwadanganyeni kuwa tutawaoa, hata kuonekana kwa wazazi wenu as long as you guarantee us a sex...sasa imagine unaolewa na mwanaume wa hivyo, unafikiri atakua mume bora? Unafikiri atakupa furaha? Au unafikiri atabadilika? Hilo sahau..unaloliona ndilo utakalolipata. My sister, unatakiwa ujue thamani yako. Hata siku moja usijaribu kujishushia heshima na thamani yako ili tu umkamate mwanaume. Mwanaume ambae hawezi kukuheshimu na kuku-treat vizuri hakustahili hata kidogo. Ni bora uwe single, ukijigeuza huku na huku kitandani pekeyako kuhangaika na network ya Tigo kuliko kugeuzwa geuzwa kitandani na mwanaume ambae hastahili kupewa hiyo asali. Kamwe usiuze utu wako kwa minajili kwamba na wewe ujiite "am in a relationship"... hapana dada yangu hayo sio mahusiano, hizo ni personal benefits na tena anafaidi kweli, maana kila anapokuhitaji anakupata na unampa tu, anakuchafua na baada ya hapo maumivu tu kwa upande wako ukitarajia atabadilika na kuja kukuoa. My sister, hold yourself in so high esteem kiasi ya kwamba hata ukipita katikati ya kundi la wanaume, hakuna hata mmoja atainua kidole chake na kusema kwamba "nimeshakula ile mambo". Jiheshimu na heshimu hisia na mwili wako, hilo tunda anastahili mume wako tu, litunze ili usije ukampa likiwa limeliwa vya kutosha na limechacha...It's starts with you, if you don't know your value, you will be as common as a coin... Know your value and never be demeaned by anyone. Najua wanaume hawataipenda hii, ila muda mwingine lazima tuwaelimishe hawa dada zetu, ndio walezi wa kizazi kijacho. #KnowYourValueAndAct #MarriageUnderGodFoundation #MarriageIsBeautifu

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.14 WAYS TO CORRECT YOUR HUSBAND WITHOUT HURTING HIS EGO 1. LOWER YOUR VOICE Don't shout at him..He is not your child. Although sometimes he acts like a child but yes you can correct him in a minimum volume tone. 2. DO IT IN LOVE Correction should be done in love. Remember your husband is a human too. He makes mistakes and so do you. 3. NEVER EVER CRITICIZE YOUR HUSBAND IN PUBLIC OR INFRONT OF YOUR FRIENDS. Stop criticizing him, especially infront of your friends or family, that is very degrading to men, rather correct in love, just whisper to him with a gentle hug. Most will say it's constructive criticism. But girl, men have egos too.. there self esteem are easy to breakdown. Correction is the act of offering better options. Correction and criticism are never the same 4. LETS CUT THE SAYING “WHATEVER MY WIFE SAYS” Girl, YOU ARE NOT THE BOSS! And so does your husband. Every decision should be talked and planned with the both of you. If he said your cooking is a little salty, NEVER WALK OUT OF THE TABLE…instead appologize and offer other options. Give him sugar instead. and impove your cooking by watching cooking videos on youtube. 5. PRAISE HIM FOR HIS ACCOMPLISHMENTS If he puts the curtain rod straight or your wall decor in perfect angle, appreciate that.. you know how meticulous they are when it comes to putting wall decor. They really mean business when you request them to do that, with all the use of measuring tapes and torpedo level and rulers. An extra appreciation will make him love you more. 6. DON'T DO IT IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILDREN Avoid correcting your husband in the presence of your children. Incessant correction of your husband infront of your children will make them disrespect him. Remember HE IS THE HEAD OF YOUR HOUSEHOLD. 7. DON'T CORRECT HIM IN PUBLIC Avoid correcting your husband in public, it does not show you as a virtuous woman and will affect his self-esteem. If you do that in public, you will look like a mad dog without breeding. 8. AVOID CORRECTING IN ANGER. Stop correcting your husband in anger, shouting, ranting, beating and making trouble. Never push your husband to the point of him to fight back and protect himself from a rascal act of yours. By doing that, you are like adding kerosine on a burning house. Instead, invite him for a walk, hold his hand and talk about the problem. 9. DON'T COMPARE HIM WITH ANY OTHER MAN! NEVER EVER!!! Thats where jelousy comes from. In your thought of correcting him, you might have been comparing him with other men. "Don't you see what your friend is doing?" Can't you learn from our neighbors husband?" "Can’t you be like cheska's husband? Or susie’s husband? Or can you be like ADAM IN THE GARDEN OF EDEN? Or like SAMSON or SOLOMON? Girl, your husband is different. When you come to a point of doing these, then REMEMBER THE TIME WHEN HE STILL COURTING YOU and why you choose him and remember how you are head over heels in love with him. 10. NEVER GET BACK TO OLD ISSUES There is no reasons why you need to get back to old issues… like “remember what you did before?? I will never ever, ever forget that!!! Bla bla bla!!!” Once the issues are done and solve, it should be totally erased in your memory… never try to open a grave… well mannered woman never do that. Stick to the present issue, discuss like adults and move on. 11. DON'T ATTACK HIS MANHOOD "And you call yourself a MAN ENOUGH?, REAL MAN don't behave like this, you better change before I change you!." This is very wrong, don't do it… LADIES YOU DON’t change MEN! if they want to change, they will change because of LOVE. Don’t try to be a sculptor of water. For sure you can’t do that. 12. DON'T ATTACK HIS DIGNITY GIVE YOUR HUSBAND A BUNCH OF RESPECT!!! Thats all that matters. If you don’t have enough respect for your husband then you are not worth the respect of your children. 13. DO IT IN TIME OF PEACE Most WIFES do want to correct in the heat of their anger, at the height of misunderstanding, when temper has already hit the roof. That is not the best time to correct, it will yield little or no result at all. MEN are simple…they have SELECTIVE HEARING. they can only hear in the low tone of your voice. 14. GIVE A HELPING HAND Work together for good… change the tire together, try your best to help in your most seductive way. That will make their job easy and fast. If he is fixing a broken leg of a table, hand him the things he needs. Don’t just stand and watch your husband like you are an egyptian pharaoh mandating a slaves and ready to give a whip when he makes a mistakes. Husbands, most of the time are doing a great job, appreciate yours and support him to be better husband and father. THE REAL EMPOWERED WOMAN IS THE ONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO RESPECT MEN. IF YOU EXPECT YOUR HUSBAND TO BE A RESPECTABLE KING IN YOUR PALACE, THEN YOU SHOULD FIRST CREATE A PEACEFUL PALACE FOR HIM! ❤️♥️♥️💙💙💙💙♥️♥️❤️

God created the dog and said: "Sit all day by the door of your house and bark at anyone who comes in or walks past." For this, I will give you a life span of twenty years." The dog said: "That's a long time to be barking. How about only ten years and I'll give you back the other ten?" So God agreed. God created the monkey and said: "Entertain people, do tricks, and make them laugh. For this, I'll give you a twenty-year life span." The monkey said: "Tricks for twenty years? That's a pretty long time to perform. How about I give you back ten like the Dog did?" And God agreed. God created the cow and said: "You must go into the field with the farmer all day long and suffer under the sun, have calves and give milk to support the farmer's family. For this, I will give you a life span of sixty years." The cow said: "That's kind of a tough life you want me to live for sixty years. How about twenty and I'll give back the other forty?" And God agreed again. God created man and said: "Eat, sleep, play, marry and enjoy your life. For this, I'll give you twenty years." But man said: "Only twenty years? Could you possibly give me my twenty, the forty the cow gave back, the ten the monkey gave back, and the ten the dog gave back; that makes eighty, okay?" "Okay," said God, "You asked for it." So that is why for our first twenty years we eat, sleep, play and enjoy ourselves. For the next forty years we slave in the sun to support our family. For the next ten years we do monkey tricks to entertain the grandchildren. And for the last ten years we sit on the front porch and bark at everyone. Life has now been explained to you.

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